My Path in the Kung Fu
My journey in the martial arts, more specifically in Kung Fu, has been relatively short, 3 years. True mastery takes a lifetime. My journey has not been to master the art, but to achieve balance in my life. When I began I was at a relative low period in my life. I had gained a lot of weight, after I had quit smoking. A long-term relationship was ending at the same time. I was not happy with my body, my mind, and therefore my spirit was also suffering. I knew I had to make some changes.
I had done the gym membership thing in the past, and was not feeling especially enthusiastic about that again. For me, the idea of spending hours on a treadmill, like a mouse on a wheel did not seem particularly attractive. Also I had some specific physical limitations, so walking and running was not really a good idea. I needed something that was going to keep my mind interested as well. I knew the most important thing was to be active, and the best way to do that was to do something I loved. I thought about trying Yoga, and bought some videotapes. It was o.k. but I needed something more. I had thought about martial arts in the past, and had always been interested in Kung Fu. I did some research online and got out my trusty YellowPages, and found a couple of local clubs. I made some calls and found one that sounded friendly and open.
I went in to have a look around, and set a time to come in for my first lesson. Was I nervous? That would be an understatement. I was very self-conscious. I was in my middle 30’s, overweight and going to start training something that I wasn’t quite sure about. I was concerned that the other students would make fun of me, or worse hurt me. What I eventually discovered is that everyone feels something similar when they first started.
As I started my training I struggled, but with the encouragement of my instructors and the students I persevered and started to get better. My balance and co-ordination started to improve and so did my confidence. I made changes to my lifestyle and started eating properly. I trained most evenings during the week. It became part of my social outreach. I was making new friends, learning new things, and oh yeah, getting a really great work out. The weight started to come off.
Now I have my brown belt. Training shouldn’t be about belts. What it signifies to me is a place I never thought I would get to. When I see people today that I last saw before I started this journey, they are astounded by the change in me. Not just the fact that I look more like I did before I gained the weight, but also the way I carry myself and my outlook on life. I’ve lost over 60 lbs with my training, but have gained so much more. I am much more toned and stronger than I was even in high school. I leaned that I can overcome pretty much any challenge that comes my way. I know that if the situation were to arise I could defend others or myself. I can now find that place inside in order to calm myself and focus.
In Kung Fu I have been able to find the benefit of achieving a better balance of body, mind and spirit that I was looking for. This is why I continue to train. I will look for new challenges and ways to improve my overall wellbeing. This includes continuing to eat right and be active. Kung Fu will continue to be a part of my journey.
RV